How to ship worn panties discreetly
You ship every order yourself. A sealed bag, a plain mailer, tracking and one photo. It takes about ten minutes once you have supplies, and nothing on the outside gives away what is inside.
Updated October 2026
Steps
- Wait until the order shows as paid. The buyer pays only after you accept.
- Seal the item in a resealable bag or heat-sealed pouch. Press the air out first.
- Put it in a plain white or gray poly mailer. Nothing printed outside.
- Buy postage with tracking (USPS, or an app like Pirate Ship). Use a PO Box as the return address.
- Photograph the sealed package with the label showing.
- Upload the photo and enter the carrier and tracking number on the order card. Both are required to mark it shipped.
What goes on the label
- Your seller name or a business name, not your legal name.
- A PO Box or private mailbox as the return address, never your home. See staying anonymous.
- The delivery spot the buyer gave you in chat. A PO Box or parcel locker on their side is fine.
- No product names, no site name and no notes on the outside.
The deadline
Your clock starts when the buyer pays: payment time, plus your wear days, plus 72 hours. A 3-day wear order paid on Monday at 9 am is due Sunday at 9 am.
If you will be late, message the buyer before the deadline. Buyers forgive a heads-up much more easily than silence.
Supplies and cost
| Item | Rough cost |
|---|---|
| Poly mailers, pack of 100 | $10 to $15 |
| Zip or barrier bags | A few cents each |
| Tracked US postage, small parcel | A few dollars |
| PO Box | A few dollars a month |
Prices vary by area and carrier, so check current rates. Add your typical postage to every listing price. The buyer processing fee covers payment only.
Keeping items fresh in transit
- Seal the item straight after wear and keep it sealed until it ships.
- Use a thicker barrier bag for longer wear or longer trips. More in the barrier bag guide.
- Double-bag anything damp so nothing can leak. A leaking parcel can be pulled from the mail.
- Store sealed items somewhere cool and out of the sun.
Shipping abroad
- Check before you accept. Some countries restrict or ban imports of used clothing or underwear.
- Fill in the customs form honestly and plainly, such as cotton garment, with its value.
- Expect slower delivery and patchier tracking. Say so to the buyer before you accept.
- Price in the higher postage, or decline international orders if they are not worth it.
If something goes wrong
If a buyer opens an order request, you both have 72 hours to agree on a re-ship, a full refund or a partial refund. Refunds come from you. Keep your tracking and package photo. The platform never packages or ships, and it never asks buyers for an address.
Common questions
How do I ship used panties discreetly?
Seal the item in a zip bag, put it in a plain poly mailer with nothing printed outside, use a PO Box as your return address and a seller name on the label, and buy tracked postage. Nothing on the outside should say what is inside.
What should I write on the customs form for international orders?
Describe the item honestly and plainly, for example clothing or cotton garment, with its value. Do not leave it vague or false. Check first that the destination country accepts used clothing.
Do I have to use tracking?
Yes. You cannot mark an order shipped without a carrier, a tracking number and a photo of the sealed package. Tracking is also your proof if a buyer says it never arrived.
Who pays for postage?
You do, so build it into your price. The buyer processing fee covers payment, not postage.
What if a parcel gets lost?
If the buyer opens a problem request, you both get 72 hours to agree on a re-ship, full refund or partial refund. Your tracking and package photo are your evidence, so keep them until the order is closed.